Patience In Relationship

Posted on 01/17/2010

During stressful times in a relationship, the natural inclination is to vent emotions destructively .

Give your partner and your relationship the benefit of the doubt.

Allow a little more time before you react. You lose nothing by being quiet and allowing the madness around you to go its own way.

Rise above it.

Find yourself in all the confusion.

Let your calmness be the island of reasonableness that brings both of you back in balance.

If you go with the turmoil, it will surely get worse.

Expect the situation to improve.

Remember, it takes time to heal.

Look for evidence that there is still good between you.

Nurture it by welcoming the positive feelings that arise.

Let negativity float past you. Do not attract it to you by resisting or holding on to it. Don’t play hurt. Don’t be a container for anger.

Keep your best self company in the face of abuse and accusation

Let the answers come to you.

Decide what is best for you as you listen, but do not react while you are deciding.

Implement your decision in peace.

Be patient.

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What Do Men Want in Your Online Profile?

By Tim Phillips | September 8, 2011

Developing the perfect online profile that attracts men can be a struggle, but if you know the right methods you are on your way to successfully meeting men. When a man is looking through a females profile you’d right away expect them to not want to read, but this is incorrect. A man is more likely to contact you if you take the time to put a longer profile in.

When you go through looking at profiles for other females you may see some have very minimal information and then there are some that have endless information. It has been proven that men are more likely to contact the female with more information then the one with minimal information. It gives them more options of things to say to you, and spike interest in you.

If you have placed some of your interests into your profile don’t just make a long list, actually expand as to why you are interested in them and how you became interested in them. This could spike up some great conversations and give the men a more likely chance of having something in common with you.

Another good thing to include onto your profile is photographs of yourself. Avoid posting photos of you and your ex boyfriend or a male. This could spike jealousy right away and make a man second guess interacting with you. By having multiple photos of yourself a man can get a better visual of you and be more likely to become interested in you. Many men judge a female by their appearance and most females think this is wrong because they are not getting to know your personality, but come on ladies you do it too so give them something to admire you by.

Everyone is very judgemental when you first get to know someone and if you don’t give a man something to become interested in you they won’t. By taking the time to develop a great profile and pretty much advertise yourself as the best thing that could ever happen to them you will find yourself sitting waiting for a long time.

By putting in a little effort you can get great results and find your perfect man. Remember though don’t just settle with anyone, make sure its someone you’ll be happy with and you will find yourself in a great relationship in no time.

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